have u ever felt that you are stucked in a rut? of how you are staying put somewhere just because you are familiar with the place but not because you love where you are?
or how you have been with someone for many years just because you loved him and because you are in your comfort zone? or how you are in that job for many many years just because you know how it works, you are comfortable with the colleagues, the jobscope and am afraid of trying something new?
do you love or did you loved? how do you break free? isnt it unfair to the other party if you tell them you need a change?
how do you know if this is what you really want? have you stayed just because of a responsibility? because it would be unfair to call it quits after trying so long? after searching for so many and you thought this was the one love you can see yourself settling down with, that this is the one job that you see yourself in?
how do you just know?
are you afraid to try something new, just because you may regret the new path you have taken? do u feel sometimes u really love the current scenario and yet sometimes u dont feel anything?
maybe you have not loved fully, maybe you have never given your heart to him. maybe.
how do you hope when you have given up on hope itself? how do you love when you dont believe in love? how do you live when you have given up on life itself? how do you?
what do you do when the emptiness in your heart does not fill no matter what you do? maybe you are incapable of loving anyone and thats including yourself.
do you stay awake at night,wondering when will it all stop? do u live your life feeling sick and tired of it all?
what do you do?
this’s life…..deal with it whether you like it or not.but to be more positive just appriciate what you have and make full use with it
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Hi there… sounds like you have alot on your mind. Everyone eventually comes to a cross road at some point in time. Do not fret. Enjoy the process and “pain” of getting to know yourself more.
What dont kill you will make you stronger!
Stay cool.
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fight for what u want.
or live a life of quiet desperation.
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“how do you hope when you have given up on hope itself? how do you love when you dont believe in love? how do you live when you have given up on life itself? how do you?
what do you do when the emptiness in your heart does not fill no matter what you do? maybe you are incapable of loving anyone and thats including yourself.
do you stay awake at night,wondering when will it all stop? do u live your life feeling sick and tired of it all?”
how close to home… sometimes we go round and round in circles, esp when we are caught up in those emotions and feelings. taking a step back and trying to look from another perspective may help. difficult, of course, but not impossible. reflecting also help but it can be a double edged sword. or lie til the pain subsides, then fight back. well, still trying to find out what to do.
*hugs*
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I dun have the answer to your queries, because if I do, I won’t be sibeh sian already 😛
So all I can say is: take care ah girl!
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I’ll flip a coin.
If I don’t like the result, I’ll flip again.
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what to do? a case of unknown good vs known evil.
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hey babe.
For me to feel totally at peace and complete with Jesus. 🙂
Take care ya?
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Sometimes, its best not to think too much. In my opinion, one should only change if one is unhappy. If you’re happy, why change? 🙂
Take care, girl.
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I get that feeling very often and I usually just sleep it off or I don’t sleep at all to think about the issues and try solving them one by one.
But usually such issues cant be solved. So I’d suggest you “walk one step, see one day”. I live by that logic to try not to lose any more sleep.
Change whatever that you’re unhappy about. Change only if you’re confident that you will then be happy.
Take care!
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omfg…u getting married!??? fast siah!
nadnut: siao!
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oh this is easy. when stuff like that happens, i just eat some good food and the thoughts go away. haha.
on a more serious note, having doubts/thoughts in the first place would already be unfair to the person/place you are attached to. it’s natural for people to have the ‘grass is greener on the other side i think’ mentality because we’re all striving for personal betterment of our lives.
wow, i sound really learned. hehe.
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