backstabbed by an asshole!

i am so angry!

i have been backstabbed! friends have been coming to me telling me that ell**tt has been going around telling people (MANY MUTUAL FRIENDS) that i have been an ungrateful bitch to him.

tmd.

what happened was this ell**tt came to me a few months ago asking me if i could help him get a certain position in my company. firstly, i cant pull strings for anyone and i know nuts about that position.

i checked out with my boss and she told me that he would have to write in to HR.

and i told ell**tt to write in to HR. i know nothing about the position, there is no listing whatsoever and previously when he expressed interest in the particular area, i went to ask my boss and when he asked me that a few days later, i told him what i knew : which was to write in to HR.

if it was a small company and if i knew the HR personnel personally, i could perhaps highly recommend him but its in a diff scenario now. HR won’t entertain any such recommendations. all such requests would have to go thru group HR and after that goes to my side HR.

so ell**tt said nothing much and we didnt correspond for a few months. afterall we were never super close friends. just worked together in the same club, he being the president and me being the vice president. (those who know me personally would know who the backstabber is.)

so a few months later, i saw his msn nick. saw that his now working with my competitor which was still a good thing cause he has always wanted to enter this industry. i was sincerely and seriously happy for him and congratulated him via msn. he didnt show any signs of “displeasure” from me not being able to help him more from last time.

the worst backstabbers are those who act all so pally with you. -_-”

a few days ago, i met some mutual friends and heard what he has been ranting/bitching about me.

apparently, i did not even bother to help him cause im so selfish and didnt want him to enter my company and i was such an ungrateful bitch for he has helped me out soooooooooo many times.

firstly he has not helped me out sooooooooo many times. infact, not even a single fucking time. i would deem it as a duty for him to advise me as i was a new vp and he being a senior in the club would have more experience. me myself has advised him many times and helped him but i dont consider that as he owing me. i consider that as my duty to help out a friend.

secondly i told him what i knew/found out.

he told many many many people. i want to confront him but i promised those who told me not to reveal their names. ARGH. but i am gonna confront him when i see him online again. i’m not someone who will take this lying down. he is ruining my reputation this way. those who are mutual friends of us, please do not believe such lies of his. and let me know if he has been telling u such lies about me.

such an asshole. to think i once held respect for him. i am so disappointed in him.

who needs enemies when you have “friends” like that?

update: apparently he denies saying such stuff. knowing him, he has a tendency to rant about people. whatever man. i’m thru with having such “friends” like him.